Why we built this
Ten reasons mainstream apps don't solve marriage.
Anonymous matchmaking for people who want to find a partner who genuinely shares their values, background, and life direction — with a level of specificity no mainstream app supports. Read on, then come back to start.
Find them anonymously
Search for someone for marriage without your family, friends, or coworkers ever seeing you look. The strongest privacy guarantee in the category. Your identity is a codename. Period.
Match within your heritage
Yoruba, Tamil, Punjabi, Han, Kikuyu, Ashkenazi — or any heritage you choose. Most apps don't even ask. We put it front and center because it matters to you.
Diaspora to home
Looking for someone back home. Looking for someone abroad. Both directions, both serious — the world's most underserved cross-border use case, finally solved.
Same faith, same denomination
Not just "Christian" or "Muslim" — Pentecostal, Catholic, Orthodox, Sunni, Shia, Hindu, Buddhist, secular. Filter at the level that actually matters to your life together.
Screen for genetic compatibility
Sickle cell, thalassemia, Tay-Sachs, BRCA, others. Choose what to disclose; choose what to filter for. Avoid future heartbreak before it begins.
Modern or traditional — your call
Joint finances or separate. Egalitarian or traditional roles. The partner you connect with already agrees on the shape of the marriage before you ever say hello.
Same life timeline
Married in two years finds married in two years. No rush finds no rush. Mismatched timing is the silent killer of otherwise great matches. We match you on when, not just who.
Kids alignment, before hello
Wants kids, doesn't, already has them. Both sides agree before the first conversation opens — not three months in when it's too late and hearts are already invested.
Your standards on lifestyle
No drinking. No smoking. Vegetarian. Athletic. Reciprocal matching means the people who reach you already share your values. No compromises, no awkward conversations.
Three questions you wrote
Only people who took the time to answer your three questions thoughtfully ever message you. No openers, no copy-paste, no bots. Real intention is the price of admission.
When you're ready to actually meet someone.
Five short questions. One codename. Then you see real candidates.
Get your codename →No email. No photos. Codename only. Read more about how it works →